Relationship Q&A | Dry Spells + Couples Therapy + Jealousy

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  1. Jenn Im
    Jenn Im
    个月 前

    Happy post Valentine's Day! 💘 Ben & I are back for our annual relationship Q&A! We cover a lot of juicy q's in this one. Also we'd love to know what new personality trait you discovered last year.

    1. Lim Doyeon96
      Lim Doyeon96
      20 天 前

      @Sharbani Bhattarai waking up at 7:01 am is a great thing to boost my mood.

    2. Sharbani Bhattarai
      Sharbani Bhattarai
      20 天 前

      Omg my crazy ocd ass if driving nuts seeing her hair on her cheeks.Girl you stunning and that hair its everythingggg but the hair on your cheek omgggg i might die

    3. Диляна Димокова
      Диляна Димокова
      个月 前

      @Jenn Im Thank you! 🤗 And thank you for all the things you do! You are an amazing person! Thank you for sharing not only the good parts, but also the difficult ones and despite that staying positive! 💓

    4. Lim Doyeon96
      Lim Doyeon96
      个月 前

      @Jenn Im Jenn, I found out that the accident killed EunB🇰🇷 & RiSe🇯🇵. But I cried when I was 18 [in 2014]

    5. Claudia Unger
      Claudia Unger
      个月 前

      @Jenn Im Do you want children?

  2. Marie Auger
    Marie Auger
    4 天 前

    I literally sent this vid to my bf saying "reminds me of us, please watch it" ahahaha

  3. J J
    J J
    6 天 前

    LOL always reminded of how similar Jenn’s and my personalities are

  4. Olivia p
    Olivia p
    6 天 前

    Why are you dating with old guy?

  5. Julie Vantilt
    Julie Vantilt
    8 天 前

    When Ben explained your patience is like a battery 🔋 ... HAHA that’s me!

  6. Gao
    9 天 前

    Love how Ben pronounced “lol” exactly the way it’s spelled instead of el-oh-el 🤣.

  7. miywws
    10 天 前

    This one made me feel better. I thought I was old finding my partner at 23 esp when I had been told women expire at 22 and stuff. We went through 4 month long distance and it wasnt too hard but it's been harder to come to the family that has a lot of violence, misogyny etc. In it. Communication has been a huge part of our relationship now as the environment has been so toxic.

  8. Lona Nyusou
    Lona Nyusou
    10 天 前

    I can listen to them all day 😩❤️

  9. ticklethehedgehog
    11 天 前

    Love that both of you are so eloquent and charismatic :)

  10. Brad Kelly
    Brad Kelly
    12 天 前

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  11. 59mmich
    12 天 前

    Ben is so kind. What a warm soul. Jenn has such a pure heart! And her skin is FLAWLESS ✨

  12. Ngawang Chodar
    Ngawang Chodar
    12 天 前


  13. Sofia Ysabel
    Sofia Ysabel
    13 天 前

    sooo adorbs 🥺❤️

  14. Francisca Juan
    Francisca Juan
    13 天 前

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  15. Brad Kelly
    Brad Kelly
    13 天 前

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  16. kriza clare
    kriza clare
    13 天 前

    I’m so in love with your guys’ love 🥰

  17. none
    13 天 前

    If I see another Asian woman with white guy video I’m going to puke. 😂

  18. Yenitza García
    Yenitza García
    14 天 前

    So... we live in a 1br apt with 5 pets and intimacy can get a little annoying when any of our pets gets needy. One of our cats will start meowing at the door when he hears us moving around and so sometimes we'll just throw something at the door that will make him go 'O h sHiT!" and he'll leave us alone for a while. 😂

  19. Zinniye
    14 天 前

    I'm like Jenn lol. No poker face and no patience for long convos....

  20. Julianna beltz
    Julianna beltz
    14 天 前

    Love how honest you both are also congratulations on the baby! 💖

  21. Ivon Sandoval
    Ivon Sandoval
    15 天 前

    2022 video: there will be three!!! So excited!!

  22. Jane Huang
    Jane Huang
    15 天 前

    Who's here after watching the pregnancy announcement? ALSO their outfits have a subtle yin yang vibe, love it 💕

  23. sarah199677
    16 天 前

    thank you for this video!!! long term relationships and living together can be hard, and the fact so many people don't talk about the rough patches and dry spells can make it hard and make it feel as though you're failing. Appreciate the honesty and the lovely video- you're a fab couple

  24. Azuma
    17 天 前

    this was seriuosly so JUICCYY

  25. ybbamochi
    22 天 前

    I can definitely relate when you said that Ben is the more sociable/chatty person who can get along with anyone and talk for a long time, while Jenn is more straightforward and likes to keep things simple with conversation. Yup sounds like me and my bf 😂 That’s his gift though and it makes him happy, so I can’t help but be supportive.

  26. Avery Kinnaird
    Avery Kinnaird
    24 天 前

    Girllll I have no poker face and patience too!! I feel youuuuu

  27. mysticmusical
    24 天 前

    Ahhh it's clothesencounters!! Took me a while to realized but I recognized your voice immediately. So glad you popped up in recommended. I took so many styling tips from you growing up. It's nice to see you're doing well 💕💕

  28. Jade Fonteneau
    Jade Fonteneau
    25 天 前

    Loved this Q&A. I’m quite new to your channel so it was great to find out more about you, your personality, your couple.. It looks like you’re in a very strong and healthy relationship. 🙌🏼 It’s really great to see that you’re both very open and willing to put in the work needed to make your relationship last and blossom.

  29. ShutUpStacy
    27 天 前

    loved watching this video. thanks for posting and being so real. can see that you guys have put lots of work into your relationship. a true inspiration :)

  30. Delia X
    Delia X
    27 天 前

    I was smiling throughout the whole vid 😊😊

  31. Brittany B
    Brittany B
    28 天 前

    “I’m so romantic I referred to you as an it” LOL

  32. Izzy Ok
    Izzy Ok
    29 天 前

    Down with wmaf 👎👎

    1. Izzy Ok
      Izzy Ok
      25 天 前

      @utf 8 ewww another one of you

  33. Anusha Jahagirdar
    Anusha Jahagirdar
    个月 前

    No poker face and and no patience. That's 100% me! 😂

  34. Hannah Carter
    Hannah Carter
    个月 前

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  35. Isabella Masterson
    Isabella Masterson
    个月 前

    please please please make a podcast

  36. Nuri Way
    Nuri Way
    个月 前

    omg your relationship is so much like my parents like my mom is straight forward and doesn't like waiting for my dad to say goodbye to everyone and chatting for hours w/ random people and I love that

  37. Thuy-Anh Luong
    Thuy-Anh Luong
    个月 前

    i love the way they interacting with each other. Cant believe that she is 31 already 😆

  38. Damilola
    个月 前

    wow jenn is so so so so pretty

  39. Renata Rena
    Renata Rena
    个月 前

    You are such nice people

  40. Sanne
    个月 前

    I am going through the most difficult time in my own LDR right now because it's been LD for too long, I guess.. so this video really, really helps :( thank you.

  41. Riwa A
    Riwa A
    个月 前

    Hi jenn it's been years since I've began watching your videos, I am inspired by so many personal talks and topics you've shared .. marriage friendship health or even reading... so glad that you are evolving .. really hope you are always doing great and feeling the peace we feel when we watch your channel ❤ love Riwa

  42. Kathleen Dang
    Kathleen Dang
    个月 前

    Omg the question about what yall dislike about each other i can relate SO much my bf is so likable and social im kinda jealous but i feel like im always on the run

  43. Isabella Torez
    Isabella Torez
    个月 前

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  44. Esther Perepechkin
    Esther Perepechkin
    个月 前

    I once heard. Not just Communication is key, but communication and LISTENING 👂 ❤️🥰

  45. Christine Tran
    Christine Tran
    个月 前

    You seem to be such a lovely couple 😍. Enjoyed listening to your answers and perspectives 🙏 thanks for sharing 💓

  46. bubblelicious NIC
    bubblelicious NIC
    个月 前

    i love the respect for each other

  47. Tyyne
    个月 前

    What a great video. Thanks for being open and tons of kudos for continuing to work on your relationship! I’ve been with my hubby for over ten years, we also did long distance for a long time and it is work but so worth it when you know they’re the right person!

  48. Marianne M
    Marianne M
    个月 前

    I just want to give huge appreciation to Ben for embracing your channel in so many ways! :)

  49. Mel thor
    Mel thor
    个月 前

    OMG I am JENN 😂 I am sooo impatient! And I tend to lose my tolerance with people. Its soooo bad. I'm working on it haha

  50. heydurian
    个月 前

    When Jenn said "compatible expectations," my mind was BLOWN. Such a great way to put it - relationships work if we agree with what to expect! Also, Ben's joke about Jenn's top - " lint rolling it til there's nothing left - got me laughing throughout the whole video LMAO

  51. Hannah K
    Hannah K
    个月 前

    this was so cute

  52. emily todd
    emily todd
    个月 前

    i love this one xxxx so so helpful

  53. Nancy Tampi
    Nancy Tampi
    个月 前

    awwwww this is too cuteㅠㅠ

  54. Zahra Anwar
    Zahra Anwar
    个月 前

    You guys are so cuteeee 😭😭😭😭

  55. Oluwatayo Isa Daniel
    Oluwatayo Isa Daniel
    个月 前


  56. Scoups08 Choi
    Scoups08 Choi
    个月 前

    Ever since quarantine started I've been trying my best to develop a backbone. I badly need one. And realizing that I can't be too much of an empath towards others but not to myself

  57. Lorena Gutierrez
    Lorena Gutierrez
    个月 前

    Ahhh starting my day with y'all😌😌😌😌💓💓💓💓

  58. Jessica Isabelle
    Jessica Isabelle
    个月 前

    Jenn and Ben are honestly such great individuals, but together, they're truly a force of nature. thank you for always being so honest with us viewers! we really appreciate your authenticity, both the pretty and the ugly x

  59. flowersehun
    个月 前

    i’ve been bens #1 fan girl since u guys met!! ur so lucky jenn :’)

  60. Claudia
    个月 前

    aiyo ben’s such a great guy

  61. Laurence Rousseau
    Laurence Rousseau
    个月 前

    Omg, Jenn I am exactly like you - patience and poker face wise! It's so funny, because my boyfriend is similar to Ben - very patient and chatty ! haha

  62. Isabelle Willemse
    Isabelle Willemse
    个月 前

    Loved this video!!!

  63. Shivani Gogar
    Shivani Gogar
    个月 前


  64. Rayma Kochakkan
    Rayma Kochakkan
    个月 前

    jenn sounds like an aries moon

  65. Julia Thiemonge
    Julia Thiemonge
    个月 前

    Having been in a long distance relationship-- it’s never easy but with the right person i think it deepens a connection like nothing else. There’s a pro about being able to be independent and grow as individuals that strengthens a union. I love my partner even more all this time later because i’ve seen them grow with and without me and we were able to come together through all this time

  66. zoe h.
    zoe h.
    个月 前

    You guys are awesome🤣❤️

  67. yourfutureiscloudy
    个月 前

    Yass this was just what I needed!!! It was so fun to watch too :) Love you guys!

  68. Leak Ngel
    Leak Ngel
    个月 前

    You guys are the one true power couple. 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  69. Phoebe Phi
    Phoebe Phi
    个月 前

    this shirt from jenn feels like she is an angel

  70. Belen De la Cruz
    Belen De la Cruz
    个月 前

    This was awesome, thank you so much for this video, you have a great chemistry

  71. Oda Maria
    Oda Maria
    个月 前

    The answers to the last question gave me life today, you guys are the cutest 💖

  72. Alexis Galang
    Alexis Galang
    个月 前

    sana makabalik ka sa bahay ko frm ghen gm

  73. Rochelle Luu
    Rochelle Luu
    个月 前

    awwww this is so cute! love these q&a’s. very honest and easy to listen to. would love to hear more from ben!

  74. mkp 80
    mkp 80
    个月 前

    I adore this 🥰 the honesty in the vid is relatable- would love to see more this sorta content!

  75. lieybeth l
    lieybeth l
    个月 前

    I love how both of you looking each other, so connected to each other - apart the fact that while you recording you need to keep the eye contact to camera 💕

  76. Jordan
    个月 前

    She was so beautiful and now so bad looking. Oh my god

  77. Zubaidah Ahmad
    Zubaidah Ahmad
    个月 前

    The anololgy of oven and popcorn is perfect.

  78. Thương Lê Thị
    Thương Lê Thị
    个月 前

    Thank you for sharing those beatiful things. You two make my day. Hope that when I am ready I will find someone who are patient and generous enough to go through with me in every difficult moments of life☺☺

  79. Sooyon Kim
    Sooyon Kim
    个月 前

    More of these please!

  80. Pierrine
    个月 前

    which myer's briggs personality types are you guys? :*

  81. Aela Medicis
    Aela Medicis
    个月 前

    I watch almost all your videos, rarely post a comment though... But damn this video is soooo nice!! You are both so honest and open!! thanks for this video

  82. Ingrid Jeungsmarn
    Ingrid Jeungsmarn
    个月 前

    I’ve been following Jenn and Ben ever since their earlier days and they are literally my favourite couple. The way they understand each other, have boundaries, their openness about their vulnerabilities etc. really give me perspective as to what a healthy relationship should look like.

  83. angelie esmele
    angelie esmele
    个月 前

    Thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

  84. Jennifer Cork
    Jennifer Cork
    个月 前

    Jenn!!! Where did you get your cute sweater?!

  85. Sarah McKinney
    Sarah McKinney
    个月 前

    I have no poker face or patience either!

  86. ijyoyo
    个月 前

    Wow, this is amazing to see :)

  87. Angelnes56
    个月 前

    is he a leo? Im a virgo and my bf is leo and this sounds like us where he is so chatty and I am not

  88. Angelnes56
    个月 前


  89. Shaq NMP
    Shaq NMP
    个月 前

    the question abt getting insecure/lonely in a LDR really hit home but in a good way. It gave alot of insight but it also allows me to look at my own LDR. I just really appreciate you guys being honest and transparent about that part of your relationship

  90. Shooky is a Cookie
    Shooky is a Cookie
    个月 前

    I love your top / cardigan... will you restock it?

  91. It's Chezibelle
    It's Chezibelle
    个月 前

    Ben is like the Agony Uncle of topics. I thoroughly enjoy these sit down Q & A videos and when Ben said "Sex on Tuesday" really got me hahahahha

  92. Lily Rose
    Lily Rose
    个月 前

    this little piece of hair look like mic :D

  93. Lily Rose
    Lily Rose
    个月 前

    I loved the video. You both are so cute. I am waiting to find my other half :) Also did you film a video about how did you meet with Ben ? I would like to watch that :)

  94. Tiffany
    个月 前

    Love a libra / virgo relationship ❤️

  95. Barbora Juhásová
    Barbora Juhásová
    个月 前

    I love this couple, You are a perfect fit for each other. The battery level part made me laugh (cause I am the same type)

  96. Noreen Husain
    Noreen Husain
    个月 前

    bens a libra right? soooo libra

  97. Ngoc Anh Nguyen
    Ngoc Anh Nguyen
    个月 前

    The way they look at each other makes me feel lonely😭😭

  98. Ojuolape
    个月 前

    I love how Ben has embraced this on-screen presence 😅

  99. Ube
    个月 前

    Ben being chatty to everyone. That definitely has to do with being British, because I can totally relate to that!

  100. 도종선
    个月 前

    안녕 도희 보고싶다 이모가